I think how I am just misunderstood, and I know something about myself that they do not. And then I read a blog post reflecting back to a time that involved me, and now I wasn't able to speak up for myself. They said they were misunderstood. "She just doesn't get me," was her reaction, referring to my apparently unpleasant response-- something I didn't pick up at all from the conversation we had. So it occurred to me: doesn't everyone think they're misunderstood? To kind of, save themselves?